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“One of the most powerful and transformative methods I have learned is The Option Method, created by Bruce Di Marsico. His work is very thought-provoking and mind-expanding. I urge you to read his little known classics.”

– Dr. Joe Vitale, Author, Attract Money Now


“The Option Method, created by Bruce Di Marsico, has been one of the greatest gifts I have received in my life. By collecting Bruce’s transcripts and writings in this comprehensive and life-changing three-volume set, Deborah Mendel and Aryeh Nielsen have now made that gift (and the gift of happiness that’s contained inside) available to all. Highly recommended for anyone looking to not just understand happiness but also to experience it more and more of the time.”

– Michael Neill, Author, Supercoach: 10 Secrets to Transform Anyone’s Life


“This is a gem for anyone who wants to get free from the illusions that keep us from naturally and effortlessly living a happy life.” Quoted in Ken Keyes’ book Your Road Map to LifeLong Happiness.

– Ken Keyes, Author and Creator of the Living Love Method


” ‘The Guru Next Door’ is a well-written and riveting tale of self-discovery. It weaves a personal story of pain and learning with the greater teachings of master philosopher Bruce Di Marsico, whom the author was lucky enough to know well over many years. I have always loved the Option philosophy, and getting an insider’s take on Di Marsico the man, and a fuller understanding of his teachings via someone who benefitted from them directly, was a dynamic combination. I read the book practically straight through and felt like I took a weekend seminar with Wendy and Bruce.”

– Valerie Gilbert, NYC , actress, writer, blogger


“The Option Method has been a great blessing in my life. In this journey of practising Option Method since the last 5 years, I have become more self-accepting, started loving myself and have a non-judgmental attitude. It’s really fascinating to know how asking some simple questions can bring a whole new realization of self-limiting beliefs and open room for life-long happiness. Since the start of this journey of the Option Method, Wendy mam has been a great guide. I always felt connected and loved to share everything with her; thanks to her loving and accepting heart. Other friends in the Option group also have been a great help to me.”

– Sijan D, Nepal


“The Option Method completely changed my life. I am a psychotherapist for many years and have found that my work with the Option Method completely changed my way of thinking and how I work with my patients and on a personal level alleviated my anxiety in my day-to-day life.”

– Jamie S, New Jersey


“If you have ever asked yourself what is the secret of life, or why am I here, or what does this all mean; if you have ever wondered whether there is something more; if you have ever sought eternity or heaven or peace; if you have ever laid on a beach or on the grass at night and stared in awe at the limitless, swirling universe at night; if you have ever sought the true, immortal, timeless nature of who you are; if you have ever sought your soul and your connection to all that is; if you have ever wanted to be truly free, then give yourself and your loved ones the gift of exploring Option Method.”

– Ira R


“If you have the least bit of unhappiness in your life then make every opportunity to learn from Wendy Dolber and Dr. Frank Mosca.”

– Lionel Ketchian, Founder,


“I have tried lots and lots of different techniques and methods that promise some sort of a change, external or internal…but no method was as direct as the Option Method. The only reason we want any kind of change is because we believe it will make us happy. The Option Method cuts to the chase: “you don’t have to be unhappy if you don’t want to”…. At first, the questions sounded kind of silly – are you seriously asking me why I get sad about my problem? But after really, I mean, REALLY asking myself these amazing questions I was able to see “hidden treasures” – the beliefs that were holding my happiness hostage. I learned that sometimes I needed to motivate myself through being unhappy with myself, or sometimes I needed to be sad to show that I care. Well, I also learned that I don’t need to be unhappy in order to want something or to show my compassion. I can just want what I want and be happy! I feel like The Option Method gave me a permission to be happy and I fully intend to do just that! Don’t delay your happiness for one more moment, try the Method and see for yourself how it can change your whole world.”

– Ekaterina Boga, Sparks, NV, USA

“Wendy and the Option method has helped me see that I don’t have to be boxed in by old beliefs or fears or those of others. I don’t have to be hobbled by the fears of what if. I can live freely and know that I can change my circumstances or even how I respond to them any time I chose. I have also learned how to listen to others and how to ask the questions that delve deeper into what the real concerns are. This has helped my son understand his own fears and old beliefs as he considers new possibilities for himself.”

– Bambi Levine, NY


“The Option Method absolutely changed my entire perspective on life and because of that brought to me success in business as well as personal relationships, success that I never imagined was possible before being introduced to The Option Method. It’s simple, yet not easy. It’s powerful and life-changing, though short and easy to understand. I 100% encourage everyone who is searching for more out of life to study and use The Option Method. You will find the answers you are searching for by using it.”

– L.A. Murkin, Marketing and Home Business Expert


“I cannot adequately express my thanks for the perspective on life and on myself that Wendy Dolber has helped me awaken to during the past few months. Through intent and careful listening, Wendy asks exactly the questions that have helped me see things in a very different light than I have in the past. More and more, I find myself seeing things in a very much more life-affirming and forward-moving way. Best of all, I feel I am gaining some insight into the method and that with time, I will be able to help myself in the same way that Wendy has helped me and will spend less and less time in confused unhappiness and more time experiencing the simplest joys of living.”

– Robert H, Oakland, CA


“I know I am free. I have the choice. I am happy. I always have access to that because it comes from within. I am willing and open – no thing or no one can impact my happiness. The Option Method has redefined the construct of [happiness and unhappiness] for myself and therefore the way I think. Everything is an option if I am open to it, so when I find an edge – an unhappiness, The Method is one of the approaches I use to open up to what I am thinking about the unhappiness. Ultimately it is recognizing my choice and making a different choice if I want to. While doing Option Method work I have come to believe, that we are not wrong for being who we are and that we are always doing the best we can. What follows is more compassionate behavior toward myself and others. Try it for yourself`  you have unhappiness to lose and happiness to gain.”

– Penny Jacobson, Australia


“There is nothing complicated about The Option Method. That is the beauty of it. Its straightforward agenda to help people help themselves in accepting their own happiness, sets the foundation for their personal well-being. I think of it as a pathway toward freedom from the burdens of unhappiness. When you follow this course, at any point along the way you begin to shed the baggage of beliefs about happiness you’ve assumed and carried throughout your life. It’s a discipline that takes practice and at first you won’t want to leave behind what you believe has shaped you. Ah, but when you reach a breakthrough way of looking at something during an exchange in dialogue or study of Option, it’s an epiphanic moment and it will feel good to the extent that you’ll begin to filter all of your personal trials and travails through this lens of reason and unabashed happiness. Over time it will become second nature. You’ll start to see problems as opportunities and instead of feeling helpless you become empowered. Through Dialogues in Self Discovery, the Option Method has provided me with the tools and support to help me take ownership of my own personal wellbeing and embrace the happiness that’s within me — within us all.”

– Melissa Dolber Grappone, NY


“I know I will keep using this method probably for a long time to come, if not forever! I am indebted to Bruce as well as you Deborah, for continuing to spread his legacy. It’s sheer GENIUS!”

– Jan F, the Netherlands


“You likely won’t be surprised to hear that reading [Bruce’s book] was one of the most profound experiences of my life. I went through 30 pages the first night, had intense and ‘insightful’ dreams and awoke to a transformed world.”

– Sue K


“I was immediately stunned by the technique. It seems to not only meet all my ‘ideal’ criteria — simple, fast, elegant, respectful, easy, fun, and powerful — but exceeds what I thought was possible… and that’s after using it only twice! I remain as dazzled as ever by the simple but extraordinary power and elegance of the questions.”

– Vincent O, United Kingdom


“I was so amazed to learn about this method and how easy it can be to become happy.”

– Lutz S, Germany


“I had so much energy after our talk that I went out for a long walk, processing so much. It felt like such an answer for me that I have been searching for for quite some time now. This morning I felt newly encouraged to do my own dialogue around a struggle I’ve had for a long time with my spiritual journey… I was able to get to a whole new place.”

– Judy W, Ohio


“I recently completed what I thought was going to be another fabulous dialogue. I was right. It was much more though. Have you ever been with someone that was the epitome of unconditional love? If you haven’t, then you ought to do a dialogue with Debbie Mendel… The love and caring I experienced from Debbie was absolutely beautiful. I felt very free and relaxed during the entire dialogue which allowed me to express myself without hesitation. Debbie helped me unravel many beliefs that have been causing a lot of unrest in my life. Thank you Debbie.”

– Bob F


“I have plenty of opportunities to practice dialogue with my massage clients. Since your workshop, I feel more comfortable, stuck less often and much more content with whatever happens or doesn’t happen in a session. In short I am happier and freer to do what I love doing. Thanks.”

– Joe Graham, Massage Therapist


“The Option Method has been the ultimate transformative experience in my life. My experience with Bruce Di Marsico changed my life and gave me the tools to get past the jealousies, fears, anxieties and emotional baggage that had kept me in bondage to my unhappiness. I have lived and practiced Option as a therapist for many years and with the death of Bruce, I can honestly say that Frank Mosca is the best that there is and reflects, in my view, the spirit and technique of Bruce most closely. His books and his approach carry on the tradition of Option and give a new generation the opportunity to come to know the truth about their happiness.”

– Roedi Reeberg, Option Practitioner


“Option has been for me the single most important experience of my life… Option has opened the door to understanding that I really could be happy, that life can really feel like fun and unpredictable and wonderful and isn’t that just so grand to know… I came to really understand that I am responsible for myself and if there are beliefs that are in the way of my happiness, that I can change that. I can truly say that I am having fun now.? No longer is my life living with so many laborious thoughts about what if this happens and what if that happens… I have come to know that there isn’t anything wrong with me and there isn’t anything wrong… It has come to be that I have really stopped looking for the teacher, or the guru, or the someone else out there to find the answers. My happiness is always mine and I alone am the one who can affirm it for myself.”

– Guy Kuperman , Therapist, Program Director


“How does one experience their happiness? How does one get to Seeing that it’s already there, innate, rather than experiencing happiness as something that needs to be achieved or acquired, something constantly at risk of being lost? Ask Wendy… You’ll be astonished, and wonder “how did I not see this before? ” It was right under my nose. Wendi is an unparalleled guide to helping you discover the truth of what’s already there. Try It.”

– Tom Saggese, CA